I had the absolute honor to read for a very lovely lady and her story has stayed with me. I usually don’t remember much of anything after a reading is complete, but this one has affected me differently. I don’t remember her name or where she told me she was from. I do remember her being crazy nervous and yet very excited to be able to sit and have a chance to hear from loved ones who have passed into Spirit.

The young man that came through for her identified himself as her boyfriend. He showed me her class ring, and scenes from their dating times. I must say that she was very patient with me since the images were of a time before I was on this earth so I had to describe how I was seeing everything. She understood the car that was long and had fish type fins on the back over the tail lights, she understood watching a drive in movie and adjusting a very heavy object in the window and she understood how I was trying to tune in the radio to ‘Their Song’. She confirmed that her parents insisted she be home by midnight and also understood the small apology he had for her. What I had the most difficulty with was his cause of death. I had a ton of impacts and symptoms, I knew there was chaos and confusion, I told her it felt like a terrible accident. I also knew that he did not want to discuss exactly how he died with her and she said that she understood that. At the end of the reading she confirmed everything and also told me that he died while on active duty in Vietnam so she could relate to what I was trying to convey. …. 46 years she waited and had tried to make contact with him somehow to be sure he was still a part of her life and was not lost.

The lady that came to see me in the next appointment had communication from her dad. I understood that she had not met her dad and that her had had died before she was born. She confirmed that and then I felt the same young energy that had come through with the previous appointment. The service man was her dad. His only message to her was one of pride, one of being glad that her mother and her were able to still have a full life and also to tell her that he was ‘ready for her’ and that he had sent something home when he found out. She confirmed that she had a letter from him with a stork drawn on it that he had indeed sent home. She had grown up never knowing her father and yet she was so relieved to know he indeed loved her.

I have been asked a lot lately about what it is I really do. This is part of what I do. Allow myself to be used by and in connection with Spirit to bring some sense of peace. To allow people to know, even if it is 46 years later, that love does not end. People do not end.  Allow for the understanding that we are allowed and encouraged by our past loved ones to keep making the most out of this life, to thrive, to love, to enjoy and to know that they want nothing but the best for them and we are never really alone, ever.

I need to thank each and everyone I have had the pleasure to sit with. It is an honor to share their stories and healing. Truth be told, I have done a tremendous amount of healing myself through the process of helping others. I have become full aware that no matter the circumstances of the individual story, and not matter if the world would consider a particular story ‘sensational’ or ‘unremarkable’ each and every one is incredible. Each human story is one of great discovery in the way we can overcome any obstacle, even the perceived obstacle of death, and come into the state of peace and love. It is possible to keep a peaceful and loving heart while going through the most horrific of personal circumstances. It is possible through the sharing of our individual stories to realize we are not alone. It is possible to realize that not only can we learn from each other but we can support each other in love and understanding as we each make our way through this life.

It is also possible for us to understand completely that love indeed does not end, even and especially when the message comes after 46 years of wondering.

Below is the song I heard her special guy want to relay to her. Seems fitting for anyone who has a loved one that is apart from them. Special thanks to the beautiful ladies who shared this time with me.

Hello, Yes it is me….46 years later